my 3 ( all grown up ) kids are 4th gen born ins.
my older son--now 40--had a disastrous marriage to yet another dubbess nutcase. 2 kids and a very expensive messy divorce later--he decided the cult was not for him--and made other arrangements.
this resulted in his d/effing--and subsequently a secong marriage to a very understanding wife--and later a new baby boy
the thing is--this little boy will likely never know his grandmother---my sons mother--my exwife. she shuns her son. all because she follows the cult instead of her head.